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Navigating Relationship Changes in the First Year After Pregnancy

The first year after pregnancy is a time of immense change and adjustment for new parents. From the joy of welcoming a new life to the challenges of sleepless nights and round-the-clock care, this period can put a strain on even the strongest of relationships. In this blog post, we'll explore some common ways in which relationships may change during the first year after pregnancy and offer tips on how to navigate these changes with grace and understanding. 


Whether you're experiencing feelings of resentment towards your partner, struggling to find time for each other, or simply adjusting to your new roles as parents, know that you're not alone. With the right support and communication, you can emerge from this challenging time with a stronger, more resilient relationship.


Change is Unavoidable

The first year after pregnancy brings significant changes to your life and relationship. From sleepless nights to the overwhelming responsibilities of caring for a newborn, it's normal to feel like everything has shifted. Acknowledging and accepting these changes is the first step in navigating them together.  It's helpful not to compare the past “how I used to do things before the baby” to your current situation and to tell yourself that this is “how I do things now”.  


You May Resent Your Partner

The demands of caring for a newborn can sometimes lead to feelings of resentment towards your partner. You might feel like they're not doing enough or not understanding your needs. It's important to communicate openly and honestly about these feelings, and to work together to find solutions that work for both of you.


Oftentimes, these feelings can be a result of hormonal changes and sleep deprivation (the “baby blues”) which is completely normal. However, if these feelings are persistent and continue for several weeks or even months without intervention, they could be due to postpartum depression. If you are wondering whether you are experiencing the “baby blues” or postpartum depression, you should read our “Is it Postpartum Depression or Baby Blues” blog to delve deeper into these distinctions to help you identify what you might be experiencing.


Not Nurturing Your Relationship the Way You Should

With the constant demands of caring for a newborn, it's easy to neglect your relationship with your partner. However, making time for each other is crucial. Whether it's scheduling regular date nights or simply spending quality time together at home, nurturing your relationship can help strengthen your bond during this challenging time.


Loving Your Child More Than Your Partner

It's natural to feel an overwhelming love and attachment to your newborn. However, this can sometimes lead to feelings of guilt or resentment towards your partner. It's important to remember that it's possible to love your child deeply while still maintaining a strong and loving relationship with your partner.


You May Begin to Argue More

The stress and sleep deprivation that often come with caring for a newborn can lead to an increase in arguments between you and your partner. It's important to try to resolve conflicts calmly and respectfully, and to seek help if you find yourselves unable to resolve issues on your own.


You Have Very Little Downtime

Between caring for a newborn, managing household tasks, and possibly returning to work, it's likely that you'll have very little downtime in the first year after pregnancy. It's important to prioritize self-care and to find ways to relax and unwind, even if it's just for a few minutes each day.





The first year after pregnancy is a rollercoaster of emotions and challenges, but it's also a time of incredible growth and bonding for new parents. As you navigate the ups and downs of this journey, remember that it's normal to experience changes in your relationship with your partner. By acknowledging these changes, communicating openly, and making time for each other, you can strengthen your bond and emerge from this period with a deeper understanding of each other.


If you or your partner are struggling with the demands of parenthood in Illinois or on the lookout for a postpartum depression therapist in your vicinity, remember that help is not merely a phone call or a click away—it is a lifeline. Do not hesitate to reach out to us at www.littleAsHealing.com or call 847-584-4464. Seeking help is not a sign of weakness; it is a profound testament to your strength, and you do not have to face postpartum depression alone.


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